I think that sounds great!
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Hmm I’d say hey mum, the opinions of your friends are far from my concern right now. I’ve prioritized your needs for a long time, but this time I really needed to prioritize my mental and physical health. I appreciate your understanding and giving me the time to heal before visiting.
I think this is still standing up for yourself and putting your needs first, but at the same time not saying “I don’t bloody care about your friends or what they think of me and how that reflects on you” and removes the threat of “if you only care about yourself and showing off to your friends I don’t want you here”. I can sense the frustration in your message and I would surely be!! But you have a new baby and need to recover, best not add fuel to the fire. You’re in the right here of course, but treading a bit lighter will just make life a bit easier.
Yes 👏🏼👏🏼 This is perfect. You are well within your rights to do what you have done and her feelings do not matter one bit right now. Yours and babies do. Hope your feeling better and congratulations on LO 🫶🏼
@Sarah I've just looked it up, is that the one by Lindsay Gibson? Thank you so much for the recommendation x
@Shannon I agree, I really like your gentle wording x
Perfect. You go for it. Look after yourself and your baby. I hope you're ok x
Perfect xx mature responsible and polite
Nope, keep it the way you have it. I would only add a point that you are now a mum and she is no longer the top priority in your life. Your mental and physical health are more important. Congratulations, hun! Start holding your head up. Children give us strength we never knew we could have. A big reason why I named my daughter Angel. lol
Yes :) xx
Sounds perfect! Send it!then update us
Say what you said exactly how you worded it she needs to get the message done be sugar coating it and making it nice doesn’t get you anywhere
It is spot on! 💪🏻💪🏻💪🏻