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I am a lonely Jonie.

Hello👋 I have realised I have no friends, not just since having a baby but for a few years probably. I've realised I probably need to find some people to talk to so I stop bending my partners ear🤦‍♀️ So! If anyone fancies a chat please drop me a message, I don't mind where you live. A bit about me: I'm 35, I have a…

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Lost interest of intimacy

TMI WARNING ⚠️ Don’t get me wrong I love my partner and I think he’s the most handsome man I’ve ever laid eyes on. The love we make is extraordinary, although being pregnant has definitely weaned me off of intimacy and sex. It upsets me when I’m not in the mood and he is, and I become frustrated because I wish to y...

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Friends

Hiya really nervous to post on here, I could really do with someone to talk to in really struggling at the moment with no friends or family support I’m currently 27 weeks pregnant I suffer with mental health and it’s getting the better of me just really need someone to talk to if anyone could help x

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Rant rant rant!

Can I rant here please. Myself and bd were watching tv and a couple were on a date. The girl said she didn’t like the guy and scene cut to them kissing. He called her a slut and asked why she was kissing him if she doesn’t like him. Said it was slutty behaviour. I went mad, we have a toddler daughter!!!! How can I b...

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Modeling contract

So I am posting incognito so I can voice out all of my thoughts. Please no judgement I am just trying to decide what would be best for my baby. So bd and I are not together and he is a “successful” actor & model with a reputable agency. Since before the baby was born he keeps talking about getting the baby into mo...

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Joke or not

Alright mamas lmk what you think. So because we females have babies thats suppose to pause our life? The man gets to have all the fun while we stay in and cook and clean 🤣im sorry but im not gonna be a stay at home mom. I regret leaving the army for this guy and my cousin thinks that imma stay my ass home cleaning…

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Nice to meet you!

Hello. My name is Chelsea Yavuz. My husband is Cihan and he comes from Turkey. Our little Kurdish American princess is Luna Emine and he and I have four bonus children abroad that we are getting processed to live in America with us God willing 🙏🏼❤️ We moved to Austin TX to start our lives together in December 2021…

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vibrators or dildos?

Someone give me some ideas on how to make myself cum. i’ve only ever been able to cum with one guy before a couple years ago and i miss that feeling. Do vibrators work better than dildos?😫

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Post Partum Belly

I know this is normal but with my first pregnancy I didn’t experience this. I feel so insecure about myself after having my 2nd child. She was bigger than my son so it makes sense but my stomach has this loose skin on it and it makes me feel so disgusting. Me and my husband have a great sexual life but just looking ...

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BEWARE OF WEIRDOS ON THIS APP

This person messaged me kept asking for my personal info and then blocked me! Be careful not to give any personal info out to strangers on here!

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Making friends.

When I joined this app I thought it was going to make the whole making friends thing so much easier but sometimes I feel like it’s like tinder for moms. Like we have to have small talk but it never goes anywhere. I know we all have shit going on and life happens but it would be awesome to have someone that i feel li...

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WhatsApp

Really trying to make some new mum friends!! Anyone be interested in a WhatsApp group so we can do a meet up? With or without babies 💕

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Bad Dad?? Advice please!!

Long story short, my boyfriend and I have been together a few years. We didn't live together when I fell pregnant but that was the long term goal. He said he would move in before baby arrived and prepare himself financially. Fast forward to now. He attended most of my prenatal appointments with me, was there at the...

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Group Text Chat?

Hi everyone, I know it made mini post on here about looking for friends, but I was just wondering if there’s anybody on here that wants to be in a group chat together and actually build friendships with people. I’m very cautious on this because I was just in a group that had conflict going on and I knew nothing abou...

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Did you have mixed feelings or a changed Perspective of your partner after having a child together ?

I shed a tear as I write this…. I’m 5 weeks PP. I love my partner endlessly but also I don’t even want to be in the same vicinity with him at times, many times in fact. I don’t think he was the most supportive/sensitive person during my pregnancy. I didn’t get to do anything cute during my pregnancy like a gender r...

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SAHM Mom here looking for REAL friends

Hey moms !!…. So I’m a SAHM mom of 6. Looking for real friendships. A lot of the time on here , I make a connection then it goes ghost. . Lmk and message me if you’re looking for the same 🫶🏻

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