Am I being a bit-ch 👀
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I think you did the right thing, I like to celebrate birthdays on the same day or 2, 3 days afterwards. But 2 weeks afterwards it’s too much.
Plan the party as you wish and invite them over for tea and cake when they get back. Like Iqra said they planned the holiday over her birthday. Least this way she will get to celebrate twice.
I’d still do the party but invite them over to celebrate when they come back. Bit different if it was one week later plus they know her birthday. Also once or twice month I would consider that regular.
I totally agree with your decision Personally, in my in laws made a fuss, or complained still, then I’d be like “well you can’t care about their birthday that much when you booked a holiday for the same time” 🤷🏻♀️
No not at all, still have the party as planned. Maybe if your childs grandparents want to make a bit of a fuss, there's no harm in having a little birthday tea when they are back from their holidays. That way they will get some one to one time with your baby & your baby gets an extra special birthday having 2 little get togethers.
Personally I'd feel guilty, especially if they asked. But maybe chat to them and first ask if they'd be open to a compromise... You have a second small family party for when they come back. Are you holding the party closest to her actual birthday? Or much earlier/later?
I’d say no definitely not a bit-ch, they also know when her birthday is right? So they could have planned the holiday after your childs birthday.. so why should you change it for them? I think you should just stick to your plans and make something up like “oh the party decorater could only come on her birthday and other dates they’re fully booked” some excuse so you don’t need to explain any further😂 sometimes lying for your peace of mind is a good thing🤣