He knock me up . And went MIA

Exact same thing happened to me, been 4 months and he still hasn’t been in his life

My daughter is almost 7 and has never met her biological father. I’ve been married to a good man for 4 years now and she sees him as her daddy. There’s a man out there who will accept you and your son. Don’t give up hope.

Same. My daughter is 8 months now. It’s okay yall. We all gotta stand in front of god one day and explain ourselves. The Bible says “a man who abandons his family is worse than a unbeliever” they don’t win. We already got the prize with our beautiful babies.

I'm sorry you are going through this. My daughter's father hasn't been in her life either, and she is 12. I pray you get someone in your life that cares for you and your son.

"I just gave birth on April 26, and I feel like throughout my entire pregnancy, I did it mostly on my own. At the beginning of my pregnancy, I actually did handle things alone, as his dad got involved. He ended up flying back home, leaving me to attend doctors' appointments and find out the gender of my baby alone. Even when he returned, he still didn't make a connection. He didn't communicate with me about important things like the baby's needs, which made me feel like I was hiding my pain during my baby shower. It became clear that this man had no connection with me or my unborn baby. Now that my son is born, he suddenly wants to pretend he was there. For the past week, I've been keeping him away from me and my son."

I’m sure it hurts, but think about it this way… you can begin to move on with your life and heal. Going back and forth with someone who doesn’t really want to be a father hinders you… trust me. I would rather someone want nothing to do with the child than be halfway in and halfway out. Think of this as freedom to move wherever you want and be able to have a non toxic environment for you and your child.

I’m in the same situation I hate that so muchhh

I will be Praying over you. I struggle with mine so bad. I feel satan trying to pull me away from Jesus. God Bless you sister🙏🏼💓you are who GOD says you are!!!! Who you say I am by Hillsong and A sound Mind Live by Melissa Helser are great worship! Psalm 91 🙏🏼💓 Exodus 14:14

It’s very sad and I’m sorry you’re going through this. He does have the right to not be in the child’s life, so take that and reinforce it to create healthy boundaries for you and your baby. Maybe look at moving if that’s an option at some point too.

Same girl my baby will be here in June and he doesn’t care to know her at all! Breaks my heart but Imma get love her double her dad’s loss.