Advice

Hey babes, I get it , I'm not everyone's cup of tea. I never feel like I fit in.. I can be super quiet because I'm very observant. How do you handle this ? it gets annoying , because I feel like God has been placing me in alot of situations like this often. I NEED ADVICE !
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I don’t have much advice, but I’m following cause I feel this way too! I’m an introvert and super quiet and observant until I get to know you, and if I like you, you’ll get the real me. I think that makes others really uncomfortable.

Honestly, same. I just learned to vibe with myself most of the time and I learned to LOVE my own company. I observe so much, to the point where I’m just like these people are weird. Like they just move weird. And those who I’m close to, are those that are genuine people that my spirit was able to connect with. I take my time with people and it’s definitely worth it. Continue to protect your peace, and enjoy being happy.

I often come off as unapproachable because I’m more reserved than others. Once I’m comfortable with someone, they’ll see another side of me. I’ve learned to accept that about myself and wait for the right people to come into my life.

I'm basically the same way

I tend to express myself through my clothing, hair, makeup, etc to attract people to start a conversation with me and then if they happen to mention one of my special interests, I LAUNCH into a detailed discussion and hope for the best 😅

I'm having similar issues, and currently looking for new friends. My advice to be yourself, fitting in is over rated.

@Natalia same, it takes me a moment to warm up.

@Ebony I love being alone , people are definitely weird and different. Some don't mean you any good, and I'm learning that

@Lindsay This is me COMPLETELY ❤️❤️❤️

@Shadra ❤️❤️

@Ritsuka I never thought of it that way

You are uniquely who you are. There lessons in those situations you have been in that need to be seen by you. It annoys family members that I do the same thing. You will find yourself surrounded by the right people one day.

I feel the same way

You are prefect just the way you are. Being this way keeps you out of a lot of unnecessary trouble. I know because I am the same way. Those meant for you will find you. Never question that. If they were meant for you then they'd be with you.

@Lia W right! Some mean you no good. And some aren’t there to help you elevate.

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